Flirting with women used to be one of my biggest weaknesses. I did not know how to act or what to say to “flirt with women”.
I thought I would have to go out and buy expensive gifts or perform elaborate romantic gestures in an attempt to display my love and affection for the women. I thought I would have to do what they did in the movies to flirt with women. I thought I knew it all, and I thought to myself “why could I not attract women”.
Until something hit me.
Every time I was able to attract a woman some how it was not because I bought her gifts or did anything romantic.
No, it was completely opposite.
I always made fun of the women and teased her. I always busted her or put her down in an amusing way.
Who would of thought that this kind of behavior would be attractive?
Until I studied about the topic flirting with women and came to a realization.
By making fun of her and teasing her, I would be displaying confidence, charisma, humor and higher social status.
These are all qualities that women find attractive in a man!
Thus, to flirt with women, all you need to do is talk to women in a way that would display these characteristics in a fun and entertaining way. So what better way to do this?
Remember, The Key To Flirting With Women Is – FUN!
So Make Fun Of Her And The Situation She Is In!
The key to flirting with women is not to take what she is saying too seriously, always look for things to comment about or minor things you can say with a cheeky grin on your face.
This way you will get an emotional reaction out of her, by making her slightly annoyed at you, then you immediately move the interaction to something serious, but then pepper it with ideas so that she may think you might be humoring her and poking fun at her.
An example of good flirting can be seen here:
You: Hey, did you know that when you are asleep, you eat like 10 spiders on average in your lifetime because your mouth is wide open?
Her: Really? I don’t think so…
You: I’m serious, I read it in an article from Time. They don’t publish things unless it’s true!
Her: Ummm… ok that’s interesting then.
You: But I think you would eat more than 10 spiders, since you have a big mouth and are always talking to so much… Plus you dribble whilst you sleep so you’d probably also attract flies because you would stink…
Her: oh what? *playfully punches you*
You: Hey don’t touch me, I don’t want to be infected by your germs
Her: *playfully punches you again*
As you can see, all you need to do is keep the conversation in a funny, humorous and upbeat tone, so that means when you make fun of her, she will know you are not being insulting. She will enjoy the interaction.
You know when you are really good at flirting with her when she starts to physically cutely punch you on the arm or bitch about what you are doing in a girly and whiney manner.
This dials up attraction, and helps you flirt because you are making her feel like that little girl in primary school and you are that guy making fun of her back when you two were little. You are reminding her that you are in fact a man, and she is a women. The gender roles are very obvious here and this situation creates a sense of fun and excitement between you two.
If you are able to maintain this kind of interaction and dynamic between you two for a while then chances are you are flirting very well. She will really like you and you will be that guy she just can’t seem to get out of her head.
Tip… the MOST effective way of flirting with women is… using sexual innuendo…